Happy 40 Years Sister

Jo aka Fina,

Can you believe that I have known you your entire life? 40 years of hanging out and experiencing life’s biggest milestones- we sure did have a good time when we were little! Even though I tried to stuff bread down your throat because I wasn’t sure why you wouldn’t leave! The forts at the back of the house, the dancing in the garage, smoking toilet paper in our Grandparent’s bathroom. And don’t forget that I always knew how you lost your two front teeth, perhaps that was Karma’s way of getting back at you for destroying two perfectly good twinkies on our Grandma’s living room floor!

Then we started to grow up. How the hell did we survive sharing a room AND a bathroom without killing each other!?! Remember the masking tape we placed in the middle of room? Actually, you used masking tape for every, fucking, thing!  What’s so cool about growing up with you is the secrets I have about you. Don’t worry, I won’t tell anyone how you use to save the SAME piece of gum on your headboard for at least a week straight. No, I won’t mention to a soul how you cut your own bangs because, well why not? Your secrets are safe with me!

Then we started celebrating more grown up milestones- When you graduated from high school, and soon after experienced your first heart break. When you walked down the aisle (the first time) only to have your heart break into pieces with two little angels that you will meet one day. I remember the day you trusted me with the news that you knew, deep down inside that you wanted something different for yourself. Then a few years later, I got to witness you become a Mom for the first time. I’m not sure who cried more, you or me. It was definitely a moment that I will cherish.  Then one sunny day, at a soccer game, you introduced me to your soulmate as your “friend” and we all knew better! The day you married him, I saw the smile on your face, and I knew that your heart was slowly and surely becoming whole again. Now you have four crazy kids and house that you have made into home.  You may not know this, but your strength gave me strength to go after my dreams.

Now here we are! 40 years later- another milestone- and you are still kicking ass and I can’t think of a better “twinkie” to have spent my life with.  Just so everyone knows… that on September 23, 1979, the world gained a beautiful soul!

Welcome to your Forties bitch, it’s going to be a wild ride!!

Love Always and Your Sister Always,

Roxanne